By Tigmonk, on January 18th, 2010

Warning. The following is not advice. Only a new perspective.
Have you ever taken a break from a relationship, to question if it’s the right thing for you; whether it concerns a long term marriage, or a recently found courtship? In your questioning, what type of questions are you asking, are they based . . . →Read the Rest: Relationship Break; Questioning your Questions
By Tigmonk, on November 18th, 2009

-Quotation Wednesday
Beware lest you lose the substance by grasping at the shadow. ~Aesop
I can’t say for sure I entirely understand the intent of the author (Aesop) within this quote; but within it I can find meaning that I believe to be tremendously valuable. Each experience, can be seen as a shadow. . . . →Read the Rest: Grasping at the Shadows
By Tigmonk, on October 29th, 2009

-Poetic Thursday
Of all that you are against, of all that you oppose, my friend be aware of this insanity that makes the heart close.
It’s an “idea” that you protect, not now, not truth, but only thought; selfishly believing in the “should” and “should . . . →Read the Rest: Insanity of the Opposed
By Tigmonk, on October 7th, 2009

The internal or verbal statement…”if only,” implies a need or desire for control. It says that life as it presents itself now, is not sufficient or is lacking. If only I won the lottery, things would be better. If only I could change, my life would be more fulfilling. If only I didn’t have . . . →Read the Rest: “If Only.” A desire for Control
By Tigmonk, on October 7th, 2009
I would imagine the ability to flow with life is something that many desire; maybe desired most at times when one seems completely out of control. What does it mean, to “be in the flow?” Maybe it’s an underlying peace that has no expectation beyond knowing that all is well; and not just . . . →Read the Rest: Being the Flow of Life
By Tigmonk, on March 16th, 2009
It’s not the duty of one man to be the savior of the world, it is only his right to save his own mind. If you are waiting on some deity, some person, or some belief system to save your world, I would imagine the wait to be infinite.
By Tigmonk, on January 11th, 2009
I find it funny that we get so butt-hurt when the smallest amounts of rejection seemingly come our way. Whether it’s when someone doesn’t call us back, or a comment is made that bruises our ego. Tell me why this idea of possessiveness gives us the right to control the actions and thoughts of . . . →Read the Rest: Butt Hurt – 0075
By Tigmonk, on November 28th, 2008
You are invited to take responsibility for you life, rather than control of it.
By Tigmonk, on November 5th, 2008
It’s amazing the amount of time we spend wishing things were not the way they are; resisting what is; the weather, events, ourselves. I wonder how much more peace we would experience if we could accept ‘what is,’ and let life unfold naturally without our illusion of control. Yes, this will be extremely difficult the for . . . →Read the Rest: Wishing