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 -Funny Photo Friday- I’m sure you would agree that it’s common for people to have questions about life. Whether it’s about their own situations, or just life in general. What I also find interesting, is people are often afraid to ask those they believe can help them most; therefore they reach out . . . →Read the Rest: Asking the Right People  Comments are closed  Daily Expression Type, Fear, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships  Change -, Opportunity -, Perspective -  Warning. The following is not advice. Only a new perspective. Have you ever taken a break from a relationship, to question if it’s the right thing for you; whether it concerns a long term marriage, or a recently found courtship? In your questioning, what type of questions are you asking, are they based . . . →Read the Rest: Relationship Break; Questioning your Questions Comments are closed Acceptance, Featured, Growth, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships, Tiger's Favorites Control -, Freedom -, Marriage -, Questions -  Q&A Tuesday Submitted Question Tiger, why is it that my life tends to explode with drama? -R. Stevens. Boulder, Colorado Insight Do you ever experience negative situations that seem to exceed your expectations? For example… you give someone bad news and then two days later they walk up and just punch you . . . →Read the Rest: Damage Control; How to Minimize Drama Comments are closed Forgiveness, PAW Daily Prints, Q&A Tuesday, Relationships Arguments -, Drama -, Response -  Q&A Tuesday Submitted Question Tiger, why are relationships so complicated? -Andy B. -Scranton PA Insight At first glance it seems as thought it would be difficult and complicated to have a healthy, functional, and mutually beneficial relationship. However the truth of the matter, from my experience, is just the opposite. It’s . . . →Read the Rest: Complicated Relationships; finding a deeper love  Q&A Tuesday Submitted Question Tiger, why is it I get so worked up inside when talking to people I disagree with, or with those who disagree with me? -Aaron B. California Answer I know the feeling; it’s as if there is tightening around the chest and breathing becomes slightly more difficult. Our . . . →Read the Rest: Adrenaline in Disagreement  -Funny Photo Friday-
There are many factors that go into play when we begin thinking about asking for someone else’s opinion, help, or advice; and I’m sure many of us can relate to what I’m about to write. I once heard “People only listen because they know it’s their turn to . . . →Read the Rest: Seeking Advice & Listening to Others 
When raising our children, are we more concerned with who they are now, or who we want them to be in the future? If you are a parent, like myself, I ask that we question the belief that says “Children are not yet who they need to be.” Meaning, their true purpose takes . . . →Read the Rest: Parenting is about Love, not Expectation 2 comments - (Comments are closed) PAW Daily Prints, Relationships Children -, Expectation -, Family -, Parent - 
Here’s what I know. When I “make fun” of other people with a sarcasm that criticizes, it is only done with an effort to build up myself; my ego self. This can be somewhat of a personal alarm, it tells me where my identification is. If I was more connected with truth, my actions . . . →Read the Rest: Personal Alarm; “Making Fun” of Others 
Trying to control your child’s belief structure, is like trying to control what foods they like best. What’s double the fun is watching parents use fear to get their children to conform, “well if you don’t believe this way, then, ummm, you’re going to hell.” It seems to me that people who desire . . . →Read the Rest: Stop Trying to Dictate Your Child’s Beliefs One comment - (Comments are closed) Creativity, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships Beliefs -, Children - 
Marriage. The word by itself has no meaning, it is absolutely meaningless. Without an interpretation from the mind of man, it might as well be considered squiggly lines on a piece of paper. It only comes alive once you add to it your life experience; what you’ve been taught, what you’ve . . . →Read the Rest: Marriage. It’s Completely Meaningless Do you really think dis-honesty goes unnoticed? Whether you believe those around you know or not, who is the one really being lied to? Are we worth so little, that we can not be honest with ourselves? It’s an interesting state of being, to feel as though you deserve less than the whole truth . . . →Read the Rest: Honesty Mental clutter affects the hearts ability to guide oneself to their truest form of existence. I believe the vast majority of the collected information by the common man is of a low energy and is hindering us as a global society from experiencing an authentic and consistent joy that most would call true happiness. How one might Encourage a Loved One; here are 5 steps. -Remember Your Capacity to Love -See Them as Whole -Discover Sincerity in what You Love About Them -Encourage Their Heart in Silence -Anticipate the Moment You Can Share Your Discovery When we are attempting to guide our children, or anybody for that matter, I find it important to put the power back into their hands. I’m not here to babysit anyone, I’m here to empower people and help them to understand that within self lies the answer, and the solution is in you changing . . . →Read the Rest: Trapped Potential – Guiding Others Comments are closed PAW Daily Prints, Relationships, Responsibility Change -, emotion, Guidance -, potential I find when I release the idea that I’m smart, I learn the most about what’s real. When I stop deciding who’s right and who’s wrong, I understand more fully the dynamic of what’s really going on. This new information, assist me in making quality decisions for my own life, rather than obsessing over . . . →Read the Rest: Smart Information In all our interactions with others, there is a core purpose to help us to understand ourselves more fully. In all things, there is a relationship; to understand this connection is to understand who you truly are. Think about how you have grown beyond relationships, those connections that once served purpose but now seem to only hold you down. Some of these transitions have been difficult, others have been without thought. One note we might recognize is the influence these new relationships have had on our growth, how they may have . . . →Read the Rest: Relationship Fear Comments are closed Acceptance, Discovery, Encouragement, Fear, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships Appreciation -, Connection -, Guidance -, I Am - The next time you come across a situation where you see another as separate, viewing them as a label rather than the love they deserve, make an effort to understand -if you wanted to, you could have seen them in an entirely different light, one that would have empowered the higher self, and created . . . →Read the Rest: Habit of Light Comments are closed *Linked, Acceptance, Forgiveness, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships Flaws -, Habits -, Higher Self -, Peace - When we observe others in what we would perceive as their hardship or pain, be it an addiction or life challenge, I would encourage you to see the lesson as not their identity, but only as a splinter in self. Meaning… Someone’s life lesson is not who they are, just as our ‘faults’ do . . . →Read the Rest: Perceived Judgment Comments are closed *Linked, Judgment, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships, Separation Addiction -, Lesson -, Pain - When you meet someone for the first time, do you see yourself searching for what you dislike about this person, or do you search for qualities you enjoy. What ever your thought intention may be, will greatly influence your experience with this new relationship. You may also discover that when you find beauty in . . . →Read the Rest: Someone New Comments are closed Compassion, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships Gossip -, Guilt -, Intention -, Life -, Thought -, True Self - Creating an awesome relationship, is a subject that truly fascinates me. How and why, do some get along lovingly while others are constantly at each others throat? I don’t know the answer for everyone, I only know what works in my world. Here are a few beliefs my wife and I adhere to that . . . →Read the Rest: Joyous Relationship Comments are closed *Linked, Growth, Love, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships, Tiger's Favorites Beliefs -, Journey -, Joy - My heart beats compassionately for those in troubled relationships. I can see your emotion runs deep, it hurts as if the highest self has been torn abruptly. With all that I could possibly say, - continue a path that becomes more focused on what you can do rather than what you cannot do. . . . →Read the Rest: Abruptly Torn Sometimes when we are in such a hurry to keep the mind and body busy so we don’t ‘freak out,’ we miss the quiet voice attempting to guide our lives. Free yourself from the need to resist non-action and be open to an occasional relationship with silence. When it comes to family drama, I find it best to see all parties as completely innocent. Eventually we will need to understand that all are right in their own mind, because of this the solution cannot be found in the world of blaming. The solution comes when we realize each situation as our . . . →Read the Rest: Family Drama 2 comments - (Comments are closed) PAW Daily Prints, Relationships Drama -, emotion, Family -, Peace - It seems much of our time is spent just trying to prove to the world we exist, we do so through emotions, thoughts, and action. When these elements are expressed as a means to separate self, understand, at its core you’re only trying to prove to yourself that you . . . →Read the Rest: Proving Self Our collective experience, yours and mine, share the same novel. Within this story we write our uniqueness that teaches beyond the hardback cover of our current lifespan. My daughter and I are each creators of our own stories and together we share a common purpose in growth, because of this understanding we are best . . . →Read the Rest: Shared Novel Comments are closed *Linked, Encouragement, Growth, Love, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships, Tiger's Favorites Creator -, Peace -, Purpose, Uniqueness - I wonder if the enormous amount of trust we place in others to contribute to our lives, has anything to do with our ignorance towards what truly goes on in the world. Maybe consequently, we spend more time trying to be entertained rather than seeking our own wisdom and knowledge. Comments are closed One Liners, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships Ignorance -, knowledge, Trust -, Wisdom -, World - Your growth, is not meant to exceed the growth of your neighbor, but is simply meant to expand with goodness within your own uniqueness. This means that when we grow, don’t look to the ‘haves and haves not’ of others to define where you should be, but look at your life in its wholeness . . . →Read the Rest: Relative Growth Comments are closed Acceptance, Discovery, Encouragement, Growth, Now, One Liners, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships, Tiger's Favorites Desires -, Goodness -, Life -, progress, Uniqueness - The idea of Being a Parent, is only a label. To think that our personal definition must come into alignment with a social standard, is to say we should all be plumbers because that’s what Joe does; when in reality, raising your child is a unique expression not meant to be mapped out by . . . →Read the Rest: Parental Standard – 0096 Comments are closed PAW Daily Prints, Relationships Beliefs -, Connection -, Labels -, Parent -, Value - Sometimes we become uncomfortable discussing personal growth or positive change in our conversations with others; personally I believe this is because it challenges us and presents opportunities for change, and in a world that desires ignorance, judgments, and indecision this is not an acceptable approach to life.
Because of this, conversations are used . . . →Read the Rest: Ignorant Approach – 0084 Comments are closed Judgment, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships Communication -, Connection -, Expansion -, Gossip - When we speak of our partner as our better half, we need to recognize these words or thoughts as expressions which create in our reality. What does this expression mean? How about that you do not see your self as whole; and to be whole, you must be with another. This tells us that . . . →Read the Rest: Better Half? – 0082 Comments are closed PAW Daily Prints, Relationships Healing -, Reality -, Social Limitation -, Value - I find it funny that we get so butt-hurt when the smallest amounts of rejection seemingly come our way. Whether it’s when someone doesn’t call us back, or a comment is made that bruises our ego. Tell me why this idea of possessiveness gives us the right to control the actions and thoughts of . . . →Read the Rest: Butt Hurt – 0075 Comments are closed Ego, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships Attachment -, Control -, Opinions of Others -, Thought - If your current relationships do not contribute to the growth path you are on, let go of the false attachments and find friends who inspire and uplift your being. Often times this is a process that plays out naturally, if it’s not, make the conscious decision to do so. It’s not about judging other . . . →Read the Rest: Relationship Attachment – 0073 What I find most attractive about my wife, beyond her stunning beauty, is her willingness to BE. This willingness allows her the opportunity to discover life now, as it happens – rather than in the past or in a hopeful tomorrow. She is Hopeful Now. Because of this, she is able to create Love . . . →Read the Rest: Beauty Now – 0066 Comments are closed Beauty, Love, Now, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships, Tiger's Favorites Opportunity -, Purpose, Smiles -, Spouse -, Willingness - When you can see and acknowledge another man’s/woman’s genius, you will put yourself in a better position to have a beneficial relationship. If you focus on another person’s strength, you often don’t have time to let their weaknesses bother you. Find comfort in this, because to understand what I’ve said, means many . . . →Read the Rest: Acknowledge Genius – 0059 Comments are closed PAW Daily Prints, Relationships Comfort -, Genius -, Meaning -, Strength -, Understanding -, Weakness - We are in a time where consciousness is expanding. During this process we will begin to notice how the social norm is no longer coherent. What was invaluable yesterday, seems pointless today. Life for some has become bland and shaded. This is simply to point us in a direction of self discovery; to show . . . →Read the Rest: Conscious Discovery Comments are closed Consciousness, Discovery, Growth, PAW Daily Prints, Relationships Beliefs -, Change -, Expansion -, Resistance -, Social Limitation -, Social Woes - A failed relationship gives life to a new you, if you seek to understand the lessons birthed in acceptance, It will bring opportunity to discover more of the real I Am; “you.” This is an amazing process that brings back the love you were desperately searching for. |
With a unique style of writing that can be considered wise and playful, Tiger communicates truth in a way not often seen in today’s world. Certainly some find his words and thoughts to go beyond left field, but for others they find a deep level of compassion, love, encouragement, and forgiveness. Tiger is 28 years old, currently living in the beautiful Southern Oregon Valley with his wife of 7 years and their 3 daughters. |
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