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By Tigmonk, on January 18th, 2010
 Warning. The following is not advice. Only a new perspective.
Have you ever taken a break from a relationship, to question if it’s the right thing for you; whether it concerns a long term marriage, or a recently found courtship? In your questioning, what type of questions are you asking, are they based . . . →Read the Rest: Relationship Break; Questioning your Questions
By Tigmonk, on January 5th, 2010
 Q&A Tuesday
Submitted Question
How do you know for certain, that it’s time to move on? T.B. -Sacramento CA
Insight
This is a very common question, and it always seems to stem from the same place. Whether it’s being asked in reference to a relationship, or moving out of state, the questions . . . →Read the Rest: Time for Change? How do I Know for Certain?
By Tigmonk, on December 8th, 2009
 Q&A Tuesday
Submitted Question
Hey Tiger. What is it that makes life exciting, and how do I end this boring routine called “my life?” Sarah D. -Canton OH
Answer
Great timing with this question. I say so because my wife and I were just talking about this and how it pertains . . . →Read the Rest: Discover Enthusiasm and End Your Boring Routine
By Tigmonk, on December 1st, 2009
 Q&A Tuesday
Submitted Question
How can I bring more opportunity into my life? -Stephen R.
Answer
Hmmm. You know, that’s a great question. Partly because it pertains to a question I’ve been asking myself recently. What I may be discovering for myself, is it’s not necessarily about bringing “more” opportunity, but rather . . . →Read the Rest: How Can I Bring More Opportunity into my Life?
By Tigmonk, on November 30th, 2009
Do you ever avoid conversations where the focus might be on you taking personal responsibility; or conversations that may lead to you making life changes? I see this often, hell, I do it myself from time to time. Sometimes we tend to avoid other people because we are afraid they may expose areas . . . →Read the Rest: Avoiding Conversations to Avoid Growth
By Tigmonk, on November 23rd, 2009
Conscious Intake
Allow what comes into your body and mind, to be at the level you wish to experience. If you could assign a number, a consciousness number to all things that enter your being, what would it be. For example the food you eat, what number would you give a doughnut? What . . . →Read the Rest: 3 Keys for a Consciously Realized Day
By Tigmonk, on November 16th, 2009
As we go through life, we are constantly bombarded with lessons in growth. Sometimes they’re subtle, sometimes they’re loud and obnoxious. Either way, they are still there, what it comes down to is… are you listening? When your attention is geared towards growth, you tend to ask different questions. When your attention is . . . →Read the Rest: Learn the Lesson, The First Time
By Tigmonk, on November 13th, 2009
 -Funny Photo Friday-
Are you someone who complains about their life, always available to point out what you are dissatisfied with? Maybe you’re frustrated because you find your existence to be boring, or dull. Even those who are seemingly busy people can end up in this place where their smiles feel forced. To . . . →Read the Rest: Creating New Smiles
By Tigmonk, on November 12th, 2009
 -Poetic Thursday
What is this heart ache of believing you are without? What is this nonsense of being surrounded by doubt? Is it the sensation of clinging to just one more answer? Do we not know, this is the source of our spiritual cancer?
If our prayers were answered, would we . . . →Read the Rest: Spiritual Cancer; Waiting on the “Have Not”
By Tigmonk, on October 9th, 2009
I’m sorry, you might have me confused with someone else. In this moment it is not my desire to motivate anyone, nor is it any interest of mine to help you feel better about the “I” you have created. If you’d like to get your self-esteem boosted, I’d recommend looking elsewhere. If . . . →Read the Rest: I’m not that Guy
By Tigmonk, on August 3rd, 2009
There is a very big difference between complaining and growing. The difference maker – is there a search for a solution? As we describe the things we are upset with, uncomfortable with, or whatever, are we also looking for a solution based in love?
By Tigmonk, on June 25th, 2009
Can I truly say my understanding, my interpretation, my observation, are the only way to discover truth? How many possible ways are there to tie a bow? How many options do we have in a given day? Is there an end to the choices we have?
In all those possibilities, in all . . . →Read the Rest: Logical Truth
By Tigmonk, on June 22nd, 2009
The reason this form of living is so common, (denial and resistance) is because we have been taught to attach our identity with all things “bad” we experience. We are taught if what we do is bad and negative, then we must be bad and negative ourselves, leading us towards guilt, shame, and fear. . . . →Read the Rest: Conditioned Resistance
By Tigmonk, on May 26th, 2009
How often do you accept the thought, “if I only made more money then the problem would be solved.” It’s amazing how many times one might entertain this belief throughout their life. If we paid attention we might notice how there lies a cycle of disappoint within this mental pattern; leaving us in a . . . →Read the Rest: Paper Faith – Clinging to money as a solution
By Tigmonk, on May 20th, 2009
I feel the world becoming smaller in my mind. I used to see it as such a big place, with an enormous amount of people; …with myself cast to the side to defend against fear. In this state, it was easier to succumb to daily annoyances that ultimately were of little significance. Now, I . . . →Read the Rest: Prickly Stick
By Tigmonk, on May 15th, 2009
Take your feelings and step beside them. See them from outside your mind. Understand your feelings, are not all you are. Many times we become trapped in our mind, believing our emotions are the full self. When we can use ‘feeling’ to our advantage, our creation potential becomes expanded; I’m gonna call it ‘Feeling . . . →Read the Rest: Feeling Potential
By Tigmonk, on May 14th, 2009
Creating an awesome relationship, is a subject that truly fascinates me. How and why, do some get along lovingly while others are constantly at each others throat? I don’t know the answer for everyone, I only know what works in my world. Here are a few beliefs my wife and I adhere to that . . . →Read the Rest: Joyous Relationship
By Tigmonk, on April 29th, 2009
Age has absolutely nothing to do with spiritual or conscious maturity, age is only an idea reinforced by our fear of an imaginary death. Your growth is… what is, and can only increase by choosing to be present in now and understanding a more true perception. It is a choice, don’t think for a . . . →Read the Rest: Age in Now
By Tigmonk, on April 27th, 2009
Avoiding disappointment is really a warped perception. With the possibility of failure we sometimes see it as a hindrance, when in reality all things that succeed must have at some point failed. The avoidance of failure keeps one in a stagnant existence. View disappointment as an educational experience drawing you closer to your truest desires.
By Tigmonk, on April 8th, 2009
I find it humorous when we believe that in tomorrow life will be fulfilled. “If this were to just happen then finally I could have peace or happiness.” The irony is if we were to at least temporarily remove all sense of wants or must haves, we could then see the place in which . . . →Read the Rest: Silent Present Love
By Tigmonk, on March 30th, 2009
Our collective experience, yours and mine, share the same novel. Within this story we write our uniqueness that teaches beyond the hardback cover of our current lifespan. My daughter and I are each creators of our own stories and together we share a common purpose in growth, because of this understanding we are best . . . →Read the Rest: Shared Novel
By Tigmonk, on February 23rd, 2009
We have been born into an environment that hopes us to find ourselves as competitive. For if we do not, we no longer have to play by its rules of fear and separation.
By Tigmonk, on February 19th, 2009
Your growth, is not meant to exceed the growth of your neighbor, but is simply meant to expand with goodness within your own uniqueness.
This means that when we grow, don’t look to the ‘haves and haves not’ of others to define where you should be, but look at your life in its wholeness . . . →Read the Rest: Relative Growth
By Tigmonk, on February 17th, 2009
I want to throw out a challenge, that I hope will offer the opportunity to grow in a profound way. I encourage you to find someone who normally irritates you and make it a mission to bring a smile to their face. Give yourself this gift. At the first sight of . . . →Read the Rest: Smiley Gift – 0106
By Tigmonk, on February 16th, 2009
Remember, those moments of confusion and fear are meant to allow you the opportunity to define more clearly what it is you desire. When we add colors to the vision of our existence, there is a creation process that reaches a new level. Add the colors you love, leave out the colors you . . . →Read the Rest: Creation Colors – 0105
By Tigmonk, on February 13th, 2009
I’m being reminded that most of my challenges are simply a reoccurrence of unresolved life lessons. There is a flow of energy and information which attempts to educate my steps peacefully, these ‘issues’ all have purpose. Change can only take place in my awareness, if it is going to change it can only be . . . →Read the Rest: Reocurring Challenges – 0103
By Tigmonk, on February 11th, 2009
My interpretation of intelligence, is the ability to draw constructive knowledge from within ones self, rather than repeating information that’s been passed down.
We can spend a life time filling our heads with the information collected by others, if this is our main source of knowledge we can end up living the ideal . . . →Read the Rest: Ideal Knowledge – 0101
By Tigmonk, on February 3rd, 2009
When the majority of your day is spent on auto pilot, be sure to give back to your higher self and find ways to express the real you.
Life can seem at times to be mundane, or without genuine purpose, if we desire to leave behind those long moments in our reality, a . . . →Read the Rest: Auto Pilot – 0094
By Tigmonk, on January 27th, 2009
Yes, you can wait a life time for True Love; but in the end you will only discover it as ever present. When we come to a place where self respect is nurtured and tended to, we can become empowered to make changes that are best for ourselves rather than for what we think . . . →Read the Rest: Love Attachment – 0089
By Tigmonk, on January 26th, 2009
Read Slowly… Everyone’s pain, is their own. We are birthed into an environment where uniqueness is contained as an infinite universe within the Self. Our walls are created for learning, and are designed with growth in mind. No one life expression can fully comprehend the lesson’s of his brother; he can only understand his . . . →Read the Rest: Birthed Uniqueness – 0088
By Tigmonk, on January 21st, 2009
When you find yourself in a situation where you desire to make a personal change that will add value to your life and make the lives of others uncomfortable or inconvenient, find a way to make the change anyway; be it starting a business, changing your diet, etc. If the people in your life . . . →Read the Rest: Growth Choice – 0086
By Tigmonk, on January 7th, 2009
We make progress in life when we consciously begin asking different questions. For example: someone may spend a great deal of time asking themselves, “why is this so difficult?” resulting in a list of difficulties which only drain you of empowerment. Another might ask: “How can this be easier?” which obviously results in a . . . →Read the Rest: Empowered Questions – 0071
By Tigmonk, on January 6th, 2009
If you wonder what it means to grow on purpose, possibly it means every day you take action towards discovering your true self. It could be as easy as reading empowering content 15 minutes per day, and making a conscious decision to practice what you learn. Maybe even taking time to journal your thoughts . . . →Read the Rest: Growth on Purpose – 0070
By Tigmonk, on January 6th, 2009
If you wonder what it means to grow on purpose, possibly it means every day you take action towards discovering your true self. It could be as easy as reading empowering content 15 minutes per day, and making a conscious decision to practice what you learn. Maybe even taking time to journal your thoughts . . . →Read the Rest: Daily Choice – 0069
By Tigmonk, on January 5th, 2009
Life is about growth. Do you really understand this? Think about what it means to expand as a conscious being, to become more of your true self. Maybe you will see that it means to increase the love you give and the love you receive. If you think this is something that just happens . . . →Read the Rest: Intentional Expansion – 0068
By Tigmonk, on December 29th, 2008
When we find ourselves in a place where our stomach aches from emotional turmoil, we need to recognize the opportunity for growth. Often times the solution is the adjustment of certain daily habits; without these moments of discomfort, we would not take action towards the healing process.
If we can learn to accept these . . . →Read the Rest: Turmoil Ache – 0065
By Tigmonk, on December 21st, 2008
Here’s the point. Find what empowers the real you to grow, and expand on it. Take note of the limiting thoughts that hold you back and replace them with a brighter vision. If you don’t know how… Find a Way.
By Tigmonk, on December 17th, 2008
We are in a time where consciousness is expanding. During this process we will begin to notice how the social norm is no longer coherent. What was invaluable yesterday, seems pointless today. Life for some has become bland and shaded.
This is simply to point us in a direction of self discovery; to show . . . →Read the Rest: Conscious Discovery
By Tigmonk, on November 22nd, 2008
I believe major growth begins, when we discover life is entertained by our thoughts.
By Tigmonk, on November 20th, 2008
Some people see fear, and it empowers them to see more Love, others observe fear and become trapped in their own mind.
By Tigmonk, on November 7th, 2008
Human beings tend to busy their lives in hopes they don’t have to discover themselves. We fill our time and our mind with pointless action and information, and then try and convince ourselves it’s really important. We wonder why we feel so unfulfilled.
By Tigmonk, on October 12th, 2008
If you have a “big dream,” you are invited to first awaken and see that dream as non physical. There is an internal meaning or message, that is more real than the physical dream job, physical dream house, or ultimate physical experience; this meaning or message, is what you are truly searching for, everything . . . →Read the Rest: Non-Physical Dream
By Tigmonk, on October 6th, 2008
Sometimes the desire to create change, is the desire to create more meaning and purpose in alignment with your true self. What is the purpose or meaning you are trying to create? Don’t focus solely on the physical, acknowledge the inner calling.
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About the Site Author/Creator Tiger Singleton a.k.a. Tigmonk & Paw
With a unique style of writing that can be considered wise and playful, Tiger communicates truth in a way not often seen in today’s world. Certainly some find his words and thoughts to go beyond left field, but for others they find a deep level of compassion, love, encouragement, and forgiveness.
Tiger is 28 years old, currently living in the beautiful Southern Oregon Valley with his wife of 7 years and their 3 daughters.
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